Thursday, April 15, 2010

A to Z Challenge, Part 3... I-J-K-L-M-N

Continuing the A to Z Challenge from Arlee Bird at Tossing It Out.

I is for Illiteracy
Most of us in the bloggy world are book lovers. We live to read and we take it for granted that we are able to. For us it is like breathing; we don’t even have to think about it. We are the lucky ones who are blessed with this skill. In the US our literacy rate is not that bad, but it doesn’t take into account that many are ‘functioning illiterate’. I cannot imagine graduating from high school and not being able to read. Sadly, that is more common than you might think. So next time you pick up a book or are reading a blog, take a moment to appreciate that gift.

J is for Jumping the Shark
Technically ‘jumping the shark’ is a phrase that came about in 1985. Jon Hein used it to describe that instant, that defining moment when you know your show will never be the same. It’s most often used to describe a popular show that does something so strange that it begins to go downhill. Although Jumping the Shark original referred to TV, it applies to literature as well. How many times have you been a big fan of a particular author and then they do something crazy with the characters or plots you have come to love? Have you ever been engrossed in a book only for the author to go off on a tangent that makes no sense before the conclusion? As writers, we need to make sure we don’t Jump the Shark.

K is for Kissing
Ah ..kissing. Most everyone loves doing it. It’s a sign of affection, passion, sometimes love. Most remember that first kiss no matter how many years or decades pass. And when we are reading a story or watching a movie and the authors and directors draw out that magnetic attraction, we root for the characters and our anticipation builds. A kiss is a magical moment….sigh… until you find yourself being kissed by a wretched kisser. Ladies, back me up here. We’ve all experienced it. So, here are few words of advice for those challenged in the kissing department:

-If you want to know if we still have our tonsils’, just ask.

-Teenagers in the 80’s loved the phrase, ”suck face”. It’s not the 80’s and we aren’t teenagers anymore.

-It is common knowledge women tend to be cat lovers. If we wanted to be slobbered all over we’d have dogs.

-If you have spent hours studying our mouth debating whether to kiss us, make a mental note of how big our mouth really is. Even sci-fi fans get a little freaked out when you try to wrap your lips around our entire head.

-Who doesn't love a little love nibble now and then, but we don’t want to have to call for the jaws of life to extract our bottom lips from your teeth. We may wonder if you are a cannibal who hasn’t eaten in a while, beside we prefer to be dessert not the main course.

When in doubt less is more. Start softly and let the passion build....


L is for Little Moments
Little moments… those moments that stick in our mind long after that have past. Moments that remind of where we have been. Moments that bring back memories and make us feel like a kid again. Those few minutes, when we are rushing around trying to accomplish more than humanly possible, but we pause to breathe. Those times when our minds wonder off daydreaming of that special someone or place. The seconds right before we burst out laughing when the humor is building inside. Those minutes we try in vain to hold back tears. The moments that take our breath away. We experience these moments all the time. As novice writers it can be easy to forget to incorporate little moments in out stories. All great authors do. It’s how they draw the reader in and make the characters relatable.

M is for Men
Last week Alex Cavanaugh gave us Genre Girls. So today I will give you leading men. Here are the leading men that draw me to the movies. Some of them may surprise you.

Michael Caine
Actually Sir Michael Caine. Great actor and a true gentleman. On my first film, he made me tea and wanted to know about my life & school (Wake Forest), and I was just a PA. What Academy Award winning actor today would do that?

John Cusack
Ok, I'm a sucker for all those John Hughes and 80's movies. Can't help but like Cusack, I grew up crushing on him.

Gary Oldman
Fabulous actor. There is something deep and forboding about him. In real life, I think he may be scary. He plays evil and twisted just a little too well. But I'd still love to sit down and chat with him; I'm sure the conversation would be interesting.

 
Clive Owen
Can't say I care for all his films but the man is just hot. Honestly, even if he didn't look like this he would still mesmorize me with that voice.


Jonathan Rhys Myers
There is just something quirky and compelling about him. His personality has many facets.


Colin Firth
I saved my favorite for last. He's the average man, the normal guy, the romantic, the not so perfect and yes, he's the nice guy. He's dependable and enduring. He'll make you laugh and hold you when you cry. He may not be able to carry a tune or dance but he'll wing it to bring a smile to your face. If men would only realize sometimes those are the sexiest qualities of all.

Now ladies, who are your leading men?


N is for Never Give Up
We all have those moments when we doubt ourselves, those of us who are newbie writers especially. Life gets in the way. Obstacles pile up. Insecurity creeps in. Writers block puts us in a fog. Time seems to disappear. No matter what challenges come up, we need to remember to never give up. That doesn’t mean that sometimes we don’t have to let go of something that isn’t working. It means always believe in yourself and your dreams. Sometimes we spend so much time building others up we forget to do that for ourselves. So make sure you are surrounded by people that encourage you to be the best you can be in whatever direction your passions and dreams take you.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Around Town... Down Island Traders


Where else can you walk into what appears to be a normal gift store on the outside and be transported into Poseidon’s treasure cove?

Down Island Traders is a lovely import shop where you could spend hours and still not see everything. It truly feels like discovering a pirate’s secret treasure cave.  It is sensory overload at its best. Nearly every inch is covered with something unique and wonderful, from the statues on the floors, to the dragon kites and ships hanging from the ceiling. They have exquisite jewelry, statues, furniture and hundreds of items to look at. They have wonderfully music playing to set just the right mood without being distracting.  You can feel the textures of the hand carved items and smell the wonderful incense wafting through the air.

They have items that will make you smile, ones that will make you ooh and ah, and ones that will have you saying, “wow, where did they find that”.  As you walk through you will find yourself picturing friends and family as you say to yourself, “… would love that.”  It would be hard not to find something in here that anyone on your gift list would love.  I could make a long list and still not cover everything they have to offer, so I’ll let the pictures entice you.
Down Island Traders is located in the historic downtown of Wilmington, NC. Be sure to check out their website if you don’t live locally.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Tuesday is for Romance.... sort of...

As I catch up with my reviews of books sent to me, today I’m going to share some love with twists….


Forget Me Not by Vicki Hinze
What would happen if you lived your life on the run, something unexpected happens and you no longer remember you are supposed to be hiding? That is the dilemma faced by Kelly in Forget Me Not. Part murder, part drama, part action, part romance and part spirituality, Hinze has brought all the elements together in a spellbinding tale that will have you asking yourself, “how strong is my faith?” Forget Me Knot starts out a little confusing, leaving many unanswered questions. One being, “should I keep reading?” Hang in there, because the dots do start converging and you will be hooked, flying through the pages until all the questions arre answered. Despite the rough start, Hinze has woven a superb tale of suspense. Four out of five stars. This book was provided by Waterbrook Mulnomah Publishing.


Lucifer’s Last Lover by Dana Warryck
Ok, first of all you have to love the title; it screams classic bodice ripper. In a way it is a classic romance told in a new way with the last character you think of as romantic.

What if Satan walked among us and was nothing like what we have been taught to believe? What if everything we know about good and evil is wrong? Those are the premises behind Warryck’s book. After thousands of years being reviled and having casual dalliances, Lucas Santani (aka Lucifer) has finally met a woman that makes him feel human, but there are forces working against them. This book is a fun romp, but I think I enjoyed the “what if” religious connotations more than the romance. An interesting read, however if you are super religious this is one you should pass on as it will probably offend those who follow popular religious doctrine. Personally, I found it intriguing and a fresh look at an age old subject, even if a little over dramatic. 3.5 out of five stars. This book was provided by Penumbra Publishing.


Lover Avenged by J.R. Ward
Ward has given us another delectable view into the world of the Black Dagger Brotherhood. I have to admit Ward is one of my go to authors. I read a lot of books, different types of books. However, when I want a book I know is going to be packed with action, scintillating interpersonal connections, a touch of romance and a dash of the paranormal, there is less than a handful of authors that I grab. Because let’s face it, sometimes we just want a guaranteed great read. Ward never disappoints me. I love the Brotherhood series. The characters continue to evolve, the action propels you through the story and the books are long. Really long, yet I always end up finishing them the same day I start them. It takes a good author to make nearly 650 pages feel like 100; where on the last page you are saying, “What? That’s it? But I want more!”

Lover Avenged tells the story of Rehvenge. He may be a vampire but he’s also half sympath and is forced to keep that part of his identity secret. It is hard to live a life where you must hide who you are. For Ehlena, who has given up her life to take care of her ailing father, she hates everything Rehv stands for but finds herself drawn to him. Will they be able to overcome the obstacles standing in their way? If you are familiar with Ward’s style, you know the answer won’t be simple. Five out of five stars. Purchased

Monday, April 12, 2010

A to Z Challenge, Part 2

Continuing with Tossing it Out’s A to Z challenge, today I’ll cover E, F, G H.


E is for Emergency Backup.
Recently Jemi over at Just Jemi had a laptop malfunction and she posted about it, reminding everyone to back up their files. So, do you have an emergency backup if your computer decides to be evil and not work or worse your hard drive gets wiped? For documents and files I am currently working on I keep a thumb drive and after learning these can stop working if just pulled out, I always use the “safe uninstall hardware” method now. I also back up my entire computer to an external hard drive weekly. Luckily my computer reminds me to do this every time I boot up. If you haven’t backed up your files lately, what are you waiting for?

F is for Followers.
I have cut back on the blogs I follow because I just don’t have time to read them all, and I believe that I should only advertise I’m following the ones I actually am. Jessica over at The Alliterative Allomorph  recently did a fabulous post about commenters which got a lot of attention and brought up many good points. Why do you follow a certain blog and what if anything makes you stop? I only follow blogs I’m really interested in, simply because I have limited time. I’d love to follow more but just can’t. MY blog is less than a year old and judging from the number of comments I receive I’m guessing many of my “followers” don’t read my post and only started following to either win a prize I was offering or because they wanted me to follow them. I do try to follow my regular commenters and comment when I can on their blogs. Admittedly I’m not as diligent with this as I’d like to be, but I do keep track and get to their blogs eventually because it’s just common courtesy and, hey, I like making new bloggy friends. Keeps blogging fun.

G is for Girlfriends.
I grew up with boys and for most of my life my main friends have been guys. I tend to relate to guys better I guess. But, as I’ve gotten older I have developed more and more really great bonds with women. There is a sisterhood that I think develops the older we get because we struggle with many of the same issues and have similar taste and concerns. And let’s face it, no matter how close we are to the men in our lives, nothing compares to the bond women form with one another.

H is for Hiccups
Not the annoying takes you by surprise at the worst possible moment and only gets louder and more persistent the quieter you try to be and the more you try to get rid of them. They trap us. We can’t focus on anything but figuring out how to make them stop. No I mean metaphorical hiccups. Those moments that shock us and make us pause or spur us into action. Those jolts of realization. My latest hiccup came when I was sitting with a fellow writer and we were talking about a book I have been working on for a long time but just couldn’t make myself finish. She said that I didn’t have to write it. I should move on and work on the writing project I was excited about. That hit like a hiccup does. It was startling. I’m not a quitter. I started out with a goal and I should see it to the end, right? Well, she was right. I didn’t even want to write that book any more and it was taking away from me writing the one I’m passionate about. Like a hiccup it snuck up on and jolted me and like that moment when you finally stop hiccupping, the decision to let it go, move on was very freeing.

I, J, K, L, M coming later this week.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Welcome to the Weekend With... Author Jeremy McGuire

The week of St Patrick's Day I reviewed a wonderful book called O'Shaughnessey, The Faerie Circle. Today I welcome the author and illustrator, Jeremy McGuire for an interview.

CC: First tell us a little about your journey to this point. How did you go from being a soldier to an actor then director to then write about leprechauns and faeries?


JM: It does seem a rather meandering path, doesn’t it? Yet, in retrospect, each of these things has contributed to who I am now. The experiences as a soldier did provide a certain discipline, but more importantly an experience of different cultures and beliefs. In the army I began to act and of course, that widened my experiences even further. You cannot enact the greatest writing in the world, embodying a wide range of ideas, and not come away altered in very profound ways.

Acting led directly into playwriting because there were stories I read that I thought would make excellent plays and I wondered why nobody had written them? Then I said, “Why not me?”

As far as leprechauns and faeries are concerned, I think that was the result of boredom. I had created this character in high school, a leprechaun called O’Shaughnessey, and when I was, as they say, between projects, I hauled him out to see if there was something, anything I could do with him. Turns out there was. And once you cross that boundary between the world of the five senses and that other imagined world, well a whole universe opens up.

CC: How do you think the backdrop of your life has helped you as an author and story teller?

JM: We all draw on our own lives; it is inevitable. We can’t help it. Even if we aren’t aware of it, we all tell our own stories. The difference is, in fiction we get to correct our lives. All the opportunities we missed in real life, we grasp in the fiction. Things we should have said, we say. It probably works better if we’re not aware of that, because we’d get all self-conscious about it if we were. But in writing as in acting the characters are, as Eugene O’Neill put it, “masks that reveal more than they hide.”

CC: You have written plays as well as stories & novels? Which one was easier for you? I have also written plays as well as stories and sometimes find that I tend to write more dialogue than action because of the script writing background. Did you find it hard to transition from one form to another and which did you start writing first?

JM: Dialogue. Definitely dialogue. Well, it is the most natural, isn’t it? All our lives we play out these scenes to ourselves either in anticipation of an event or to re-play it afterwards. We practice job interviews, first dates, meeting the Ambassador of Slobovia, all of these things, and it takes the form of dialogue. What is she going to say? What will I say? We are running dialogues in our heads all the time. Narrative is tougher. It requires you to get out of your head and observe closely what people do, where they do it, how they move, what they actually look like … all that stuff. Then you have to be able to pick out only those most important things that move the action of the story along and describe them with some accuracy and, it can be hoped, with some imagination.

CC: What is the most challenging aspect of writing? Most rewarding?

JM: Most challenging is finding the voice. It isn’t the same for every piece. The voice for the O’Shaughnessey books is that of an Irish storyteller, to be precise, the character of Father Duddelswell in the BBC series, Bless Me Father. The voice for the book I’m writing for the adult audience now, From All Things Evil, is, if you can believe it, Alec Guinness. Yes, I steal. I’m an actor. But as Michael Caine once observed, “Only steal from the best.”

CC: What comes first for you when you sit down to write a book? Plot or Characters?

JM: Oddly enough, that varies with each book. In the first O’Shaughnessey book, A Boy and His Leprechaun, it was the characters. I had the devil’s own time coming up with an action for them! Once I got the voice, though, the story told itself, “one thing after the other.” In The Faerie Circle, what came first was, the girl at the lake being taken by faeries.. I knew I had to find a way to get there. Plot very rarely is a factor. If you create the action, the plot will take care of itself. Action is a conflict being resolved. Find the conflict and you’ll find the action. Find the action and you’ll have the plot.

CC: Do you "cast" your characters using pictures or actors to help inspire you when you're writing?

JM: Well, as I said before, when finding the voice, I sometimes depend on hearing an actor telling the story, but characters come from life. First comes the action, the conflicts that has to be resolved, then come the characters, the agents of that action. Many of the characters are composites of people I have known, some are direct portraits, but those are few. You cannot transpose someone from life and put them into an action and expect a good fit. Alterations have to be made to fit what the character has to do, but yes, I can say I draw them from life. O’Shaughnessey, though, I must confess, even when he was invented so long ago, was based on the Irish actor Barry Fitzgerald. O’Sullivan was drawn from Pat O’Brien, the other Pat O’Brien from the 1930’s

CC: I know you also do the illustrations in your books. Do you have to switch mindsets from writing to drawing? Tells us a little about your process.

JM: It's symbiotic. They both happen at pretty much the same time, each feeding the other. I sketch what I have conceived as a narrative, but if in the process of drawing I discover something that will affect the narrative I will change the writing. The process goes all the way back to my acting career; the first thing I did after getting a role and reading the script was make a drawing of the character in real life and put him into motion. It was my way of almost unconsciously discovering the character in me and at least getting the physicality. Costume designers in particular appreciated the drawings since it gave them a concrete visualization of where I was going with the character. I do the same thing in my writing. I have, by the time I am working on the first draft, a drawer full of sketches that I have used to visualize the characters in action. Only a select few of them ever make it to finished illustrations.


The first book was done in pen-and-ink, but the second in in pencil. In my public readings, I also like to demonstrate how the illustrations are drawn. I will hold up a pencil, a standard #2, and ask, "What do you think this is?" Usually the answer is the obvious: "A pencil!" I then go on to say, "If I were just a writer, I would agree, but to an artist, this is also a modelling tool. Imagine the paper is a slab of soft clay; by handling the pencil like a modelling tool, I can cut into the surface and carely shape the clay into a picture. I often hear people say, 'But, I cannot draw a straight line.' Well, my dear hearts, neither can I."


I will then start to lay down a series of smudges from which a portrait of O'Shaughnessey emerges, all without drawing a single line.


CC: When you sit down to start a new book do you begin with an outline or synopsis or do you just go with the flow?

JM: It depends. There is no one way to write a book. Sometimes, I go with Poe’s notion that a writer has to know where he is going in order to get there. Other times, I have found great success in improvisation, at least in the beginning. The Faerie Circle is made up of many different scenelets that came to me at different times and I wrote them down. Each one was a single action. I joined them together like pearls on a string to make up the final book. Of course, I mostly knew pretty much where in the story they would occur when I wrote each one, but not all the time. Above all, you cannot dictate to the story how it will present itself to you. Each one is different.

CC: How much does reader reaction mean to you as an author?

JM: While I’m writing? Not a lot. It means a great deal now that it’s finished. Being a storyteller, I do envision the audience out there “beyond the footlights,” but they are never that clear. I let the story tell itself and I write down what happens. Generally, if I am writing for an audience of children, I will imagine a group of children around me as I tell it, but it’s very general. It makes me speak in a voice that can be understood by children. I do not, however, write down to them. I don’t mind if they have to crack open the dictionary on occasion or ask their parents what a certain passage means. I think it is important to stretch them.

CC: What inspired you to write O’Shaughnessey’s stories?

JM: As I said, boredom, Looking for something to do. As Moira McCarthy says in the book, “You must cultivate boredom… It’s boredom that makes us create to keep ourselves alive and interested in life…’Tis in the silence that magic is found.” Now, some people call that meditation, but I call it boredom, the empty space, the vacuum waiting to be filled with…what? We don’t know, and that’s the greatest of all gifts, the not knowing. There’s where creativity lies. Once I remembered the character from my youth, and I gave him a human to react to, the seed of the story was planted.

CC: How much research did you do for your book and how much ended up in the finished product?

JM: Research? Enough. No more. If there was something that popped up as a result of the action, I would have to research that pretty fully. (Thank God for the Internet!) But sometimes I fudged. For example, there are few if any mountains in County Roscommon, Ireland. But I wanted Maeve, Queen of the Roscommon Faeries to live there and be part of the story. I also wanted the McCarthy farm to be on a mountain top. So, I put a mountain in western Roscommon, you know, kind of nudged it over from County Mayo. In fiction, very often, facts are agents of the action as surely as the characters are. Now, I would not allow Queen Elizabeth I to marry the King of Spain in a historical novel, but in a fantasy, anything is possible.

CC: Which character in this book most resembles you?

JM: Oh, I am Bobby Mahoney. No doubt about that. It’s highly autobiographical and all true. Okay, except for the leprechauns, the flying hat, the Ban-Shee ,the Fortress of Death or the Court of Finvarra under Knockmaa. Other than that it’s all absolutely genuine.

CC: Your story has several paranormal elements. If you had one of their abilities which one would you choose?

JM: Being a Walker Between Worlds, being able to go back and forth between the Five-Senses-World and the Invisible World. I understand there are those who can do that, can part the veil of glamour and see into Faerie, but I am not one of those. The person who Moira McCarthy was based on could, but that was a long time ago.

CC: What do you hope for your writing career in the next few years? Any goals that you have yet to obtain that you have set for yourself?

JM: Most of them. But primarily I want to keep writing. There are more stories in me and I’d like to have the time to get them out.

CC: Who are your favorite authors?

JM: At the risk of boring your audience, I have to go back to the nineteenth century. I adore Dostoyevsky and Chekov from Russia, and the American Mark Twain. Let’s see, who else? Poe, of course, and Walt Whitman whose poetry I equate almost with holy writ. And, as long as we’re talking poetry, I cannot neglect to mention Yeats and Elliot. Of twentieth century novelists, J.D. Salinger stands out. He wrote beautiful books.

CC: If you could spend the day with one person (someone in history, a favorite author, a public figure, a character in a book, etc.), who would you choose and why?

JM: Mark Twain. Hands down. I’m not all that certain he’s like me, but I’d follow him around anyway just to drink in the irreverence and the humor. Say what you like, if we want the truth, we have to depend on the humorists to give it to is. Twain was the best.

CC: I follow your blog and absolutely love your posts. Where do you get your ideas for your posts? Are they planned out in advance or do you just sit down and start writing?

JM: Everywhere from politics to the smallest observation. The fact that it is so hard to get a really good hamburger these days may develop into a history of the burger and its adulteration by the fast food chains. On the other hand, some events in the news might move me to look past the surface to examine what the fuss is really all about. I take Moira McCarthy’s observation to heart: “When crockery comes to grief, it’s not about what it’s about.” Whatever they say it’s about, if the voices are raised in anger and if violence occurs, it’s not about what it’s about. To find out what it is about requires some thought and a historical perspective. One article may take a month or so to write, others only take an afternoon. It depends.

CC: Your blog post on New Year’s Eve and the various calendars made me wonder, what is your opinion of all the 2012 hype?

JM; Not worth worrying about. If it’s going to happen, there isn’t a lot we can do about it, although I will be slightly annoyed that I put all that money into my 401k and didn’t have a good time with it.

CC: Loved the “Broke *** Christmas” post. In your end note you warned not to challenge you at Trivial Pursuit. Besides that game, what are some of your favorite games?

JM : That’s it. The only game I’m any good at. I’m not really a game-player.

CC: Finally, I know you are working on the third book on O’Shaughnessey, what's up next for the characters?

JM: The Faerie Circle centered on Margaret’s realization of her power once she got out of her own way. The next book picks her up at a very dangerous time for those who have the sight. She’s eighteen years old and, because she spent a year in Ireland, is only going into the Senior Year in high school when her summer with Moira McCarthy is over. In The Faerie Circle, the leprechauns describe how humans lose the sight as they get older and one, O’Sullivan, observes, “’Tis the fallin’ in love that is their downfall.” She has already gotten some flack from a boy at home because of the Sight and she’s tempted to give it up.

The third book is called “The Changeling” and is a love story. Michael McCarthy, Moira’s son, returns from Galway to take over the farm and because he understands people who see faeries, even though he cannot see them himself, and because he is safe, Margaret falls in love with him, and his mother, Moira McCarthy, encourages them for her own reasons. Soon after they form a romantic attachment, Michael is replaced by a changeling, a shape-shifting faerie who is sent by the Fir Bolg to use her love to steal her power and give it to them. If anyone has ever been in a relationship they thought was the answer to all their prayers only to find out they were attached to a changeling they didn’t really know who stole their power, then they will understand why I am writing the third book. It’s geared toward young adults at about the same age as Margaret.

Jeremy, Thank you so much for joining us today.

Be sure to check out his website and if you would like a MP3 of him reading the first chapter of The Faerie Circle, email me and I'll send it to you.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

The A to Z Post Challenge

Earlier this week I discovered a posting challenge created by Arlee Bird over at Tossing It Out. (this was right before I discovered I have the flu, which is why the post is a little late today.) The challenge was starting April 1st to write a post a day titled with each letter of the alphabet for a total of 26 posts in the month of April.

I think it’s a great challenge and although I want to take up the gauntlet, I don’t have the time to come up with a new post everyday so I’m going to cheat and do several post that cover multiple letters. Five posts to be exact, each one starting with a vowel. So for this first post we have A, B, C, D. (Arlee Bird Creates Disquisition.)


A is for Ambrosia
Literature is the ambrosia of the soul. It is food for the mind no matter what form it takes. Be it a classic novel, enlightening non-fiction, fantastical fiction, light-hearted prose, captivating plays, tempting blog posts, or even a tempestuous letter from a far off lover, the written word nurtures and sustains us. Whether enticing or repelling, it unleashes our emotions and revs our intellectual engines. It captures our histories and alludes to our futures. It can take us on faraway journeys to sometimes new dimensions and world yet can find us when we are lost and guide us home again.

B is for Baksheesh (noun- a gratuity, a tip, a bribe)
In the world of blogs we all enjoy a little gratuity from our fellow bloggers and followers, whether it comes in the form of a comment, an award, a prize or simply knowing someone is reading our thoughts. These are the things that make blogging fun and social. Really what would be the point if no one was reading. And as many have discovered, subconscious bribery is involved, in that many comment on other's blogs, offer prizes, etc. to lure them to their own. Of course our main form of bribery is in offering up tintillating posts and challenges.

C is for Capitulation (surrender)
Yes, surrender to the allure of blogging addiction. Admit it, once you start it's really hard to stop. Lose yourself in the dizzying array of posts, pictures, comments, colors, comaraderie, etc that draws to jump over and read just one more post before turning the computer off or going back to life less colorful. Surrender to the endless supply of new friends you will make, tips you will learn, fun you will have.... (okay the meds may be making me a little nutty right now, but you get the picture)

D is for Disquisition (Dialogue)
The blog world opens up a whole new way to meet new people, share ideas and have conversations/debates. What other world but the internet one, gives us the opportunity to talk with any one, of any culture,  from any place and whatever did we do before we had it?

Come back next week for E-H...

and don't forget to stop by Tossing it Out for a list of all the participants and links to their blogs.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Around Town... Planet

This week we are going to visit a fabulous little novelty store called Planet. If you are looking for something unusual, unique maybe even a touch bohemian, then you definitely want to stop in this shop. In additional to great little novelty items, you will also find jewelry, lunch boxes, belt buckles, cigarette/card cases, bags, cards, bohemian clothing items, t-shirts, scarves, some great Doc Marten footwear, vintage military items & suitcases, items made by local artists and of course my favorite thing… hats. Lots of fabulous hats. Like many of the downtown stores, Planet is long and narrow and packs a lot into a small space. This store is a smorgasbord of eye candy. There is something for just about everyone here. It is a great place to find that unique gift for the person who has everything, is impossible to shop for or just needs something fun & frivolous for a change. I get my nieces and nephews gifts here and have been dubbed the coolest aunt.




So next time your downtown, stop in and say hi to the lovely owner, Patrizia. If you live out of town, check out her website. It’s a work in progress, but you can contact her to order any items you see in the pictures that haven’t made it to the website yet.


The duckies greet you as you walk in the door.


The wall of novelty items

The prints on the brick wall add to the charm

Kurt would have loved this store!

Okay a little blurry, but you get the idea- lots of clothes & hats

The military & memorabilia nook



To read some customer reviews and see more pictures visit Yelp.

Planet is located at 108 North Front Street, Wilmington, NC 28401 and is open seven days a week.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Reviews

The Khan Dilemma by Ron Goodreau
Why would a murderer with the still smoking gun charge the only witness instead of killing him? Why does the FBI show up before the bodies have cooled and the local police arrive at the scene? What is the Muslim factor? These are all questions , prosecutor, Max Siegel, is trying to find the answers to. With no help from his boss, interference from the government and each answer leading to more questions, will Max solve the case and get the real bad guys or will he get a toe tag and an extended stay in the morgue? Goodreau has written a compelling political thriller with more twist than a tornado. Excellently written. Four out of five stars.


Keys to the Condo by Danny D. Langone
Keys to the Condo is a book of life through poems. Langone takes us on a journey through life with his wonderfully insightful poetry. He brings the events of his life into focus with prose that will have you reminiscing about your own life. This book is written so simply and flows so well that even those who don’t normally read traditional poetry will enjoy it. To get in touch with the rhythm of life pick up a copy of Keys to the Condo. It would also make an excellent gift with Mother’s & Father’s day just around the corner. 4.5 out of five stars.




Virtually Dead by Peter May
What happens when life and virtual art mirror each other? People end up virtually dead in both lives. May gives us the story of Michael, a forensic photographer, who like many in our world, finds a way to cope with his grief by escaping into an online world. When Michael begins to build his character in the virtual world of Second Life, he realizes that the murders in Second Life and in real life are mirroring each other. May expertly moves from one world to the other without losing the reader in all the twists and turns. A very well written mystery. Five out of five stars.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Email Forwards

I'm back! I hope everyone had a safe and happy holiday weekend.

I have certain people in my life who are pretty relentless about sending me forwards. Irritatingly they never send me normal emails, they just forward everything they get. I rarely if ever pass them on, but every once in a while I do get a good one. Instead of annoying those on my contact list, I thought I'd share this really funny one with my readers:

I just want to thank all of you for your educational e-mails over the past year. Because of these e-mails...


• I no longer open a public bathroom door without using a paper towel or have them put lemon slices in my ice water without worrying about bacteria.

• I can't use the remote in a hotel room because I don't know what the last person was doing while flipping through the adult movie channels.

• I can't sit down on the hotel bedspread because I can only imagine what has happened on it since it was last washed.

• I have trouble shaking hands with someone who has been driving because the number one pastime while driving alone is picking ones nose.

• Eating a little snack sends me on a guilt trip because I can only imagine how many gallons of Trans fats I have consumed over the years.

• I can't touch any woman's purse for fear she has placed it on the floor of a public bathroom.

• I MUST SEND MY SPECIAL THANKS to whoever sent me the one about poop in the glue on envelopes because I now have to use a wet sponge with every envelope that needs sealing.

• ALSO, now I have to scrub the top of every can I open for the same reason..

• I no longer have any savings because I gave it to a sick girl (Penny Brown) who is about to die in the hospital for the 1,387,258th time.

• I no longer have any money at all, but that will change once I receive the $15,000 that Bill Gates/Microsoft and AOL are sending me for participating in their special e-mail program.

• I no longer worry about my soul because I have 363,214 angels looking out for me, and St. Theresa's Novena has granted my every wish.

• I no longer eat KFC because their chickens are actually horrible mutant freaks with no eyes or feathers..

• I no longer use cancer-causing deodorants even though I smell like a water buffalo on a hot day.

• THANKS TO YOU I have learned that my prayers only get answered if I forward an e-mail to seven of my friends and make a wish within five minutes.

• BECAUSE OF YOUR CONCERN, I no longer drink Coca Cola because it can remove toilet stains.

• I no longer can buy gasoline without taking someone along to watch the car so a serial killer won't crawl in my back seat when I'm pumping gas.

• I no longer drink Pepsi or Dr. Pepper since the people who make these products are atheists who refuse to put 'Under God' on their cans.

• I no longer use Saran Wrap in the microwave because it causes cancer.

• AND THANKS FOR LETTING ME KNOW I can't boil a cup of water in the microwave anymore because it will blow up in my face.. Disfiguring me for life.

• I no longer check the coin return on pay phones because I could be pricked with a needle infected with AIDS..

• I no longer go to shopping malls because someone will drug me with a perfume sample and rob me.

• I no longer receive packages from UPS or Fed Ex since they are actually Al Qaeda in disguise.

• I no longer shop at Target since they are French and don't support our American troops or the Salvation Army.

• I no longer answer the phone because someone will ask me to dial a number for which I will get a phone bill with calls to Jamaica , Uganda , Singapore , and Uzbekistan ...

• I no longer buy expensive cookies from Neiman Marcus since I now have their recipe.

• THANKS TO YOU I can't use anyone's toilet but mine because a big brown African spider is lurking under the seat to cause me instant death when it bites my butt.

• AND THANKS TO YOUR GREAT ADVICE I can't ever pick up $5.00 dropped in the parking lot because it probably was placed there by a sex molester waiting underneath my car to grab my leg.

• I can no longer drive my car because I can't buy gas from certain gas companies!

• I can't do any gardening because I'm afraid I'll get bitten by the brown recluse and my hand will fall off.

• And I now keep my toothbrush in the living room, because water splashes over 6 ft. out of the commode.

If you don't send this e-mail to at least 144,000 people in the next 70 minutes, a large dove with diarrhea will land on your head at 5:00 p.m. tomorrow afternoon and the fleas from 12 camels will infest your back causing you to grow a hairy hump. I know this will occur because it actually happened to a friend of my next door neighbors' ex-mother-in-law's second husband's cousin's beautician.

So how do you feel about "forwards" and do you send them on?